Bridal shoe number-one imperative: Go with what you know. This is not the time for trying out stilettos, or your wedding may be remembered not for its exquisite charm but for that header you took halfway up the aisle. Nor do you want your guests to chuckle when that sassy mule is left at the altar, or wrinkle their brows at the day-glo sneakers you snuck under your gown, or gasp when your hem catches on the spangly beads adorning your pumps. You want sensible shoes.

To all those brides-to-be shuddering at the thought of wearing grandmas orthopedic walking shoes, relax. Sensible meets stylish and sexy in a variety of footwear in the bridal marketplace. Elegant pumps, strappy sandals, delicate ballerina slippers, chic platform heels, open or closed toe, Sabrina, stacked, or fluted heel–any and all of these will give plenty of dress appeal and afford comfort at the same time. Pick the style that works with your gown. Go for patent leather only if you need the support; silk, velvet, satin, and crepe are better choices for a delicate look. Dye them to match your gown or have them custom-embroidered for a romantic touch. Try a lacy, ankle-high boot if it matches the dresss style. Just no flats, please!

More tips to try on for size:

• Unless youre getting wed on the beach, do not forego stockings: sheer, color-coordinated, or patterned bridal hose. (If you are having a beach wedding, shoes are optional!)
• If you can walk in those 4-inch heels but dread the thought of all-night dancing, bring along a more comfy pair to change into at the reception.
• Dont buy heels that will make you taller than the groom.
• Dont forget to take your shoes to your gown fittings so the hem can be measured accurately.
• Practice walking in your shoes. Break them in. Determine how long youll be walking, dancing, and standing in them, and then wear them for that length of time.
• Finally, if your gown is an elaborate, full-length creation, dont go overboard on your shoes–no one will notice them anyway.

– Lisa Costantino, Amazon.com Wedding Expert

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